Small talk is an expression we use when describing the types of conversations you have with strangers.
Imagine you are attending an international conference. You’re travelling alone and you don’t really know any of the other attendees. Over coffee, you initiate conversation. This is small talk. The conversations we have in these situations are quite standard and the topics are usually quite common. As you can imagine, there are topics which we can talk about freely and topics which are strictly taboo.
When making small talk, these are generally safe topics!
The weather: “It’s a nice day we’re having, isn’t it?
“We really needed this rain!.”
Sports: “Did you watch the match last night?”
“The local team is doing quite well.”
Work (general aspects): “How is work going?”
“What do you do for a living?”
Hobbies and interests: “What do you like to do in your free time?"
"Do you have any hobbies?"
Travel: "Have you been on any interesting trips lately?"
“Is this your first time in (city)?”
Food and restaurants: "Have you tried that new Italian place downtown?"
“Do you have any recommendations on a place to eat?”
Entertainment: “Have you seen any good movies recently?"
“Are you hooked on any series?”
Taboo subjects that should be avoided!
Politics: Can be divisive and lead to heated discussions
Religion: Deeply personal and potentially sensitive
Controversial social issues: Topics like abortion, gun control, etc. are best avoided in small talk
Personal appearance: Comments on weight, height, or other physical attributes can be offensive
Salary or income: Considered very private in most English-speaking cultures. It is possible that a curious American could ask your salary, so just be warned!
Relationship status: Can be sensitive, especially for strangers or acquaintances
Gossip or negative comments about others: Unprofessional and unkind
They key to successful small talk is open questions (who/what/when/where/etc), interest and active listening. Good luck at your next conference, wedding or networking event.
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